Go on, be honest. You probably are a little curious as to what “sex magic” is and how it works. To be honest, we are curious, too.
Thankfully, our curiosity was quenched after chatting with Corii Siren — cam model, phone sex operator, witch and tarot enthusiast — about sex magic.
During our chat, Siren told us about how she discovered she’s a witch and what sex magic means to her. Siren also was kind enough to share a little insight on how beginners can harness their sexual power to empower their self.
YNOT Cam: First off, I noticed you identify as a witch on Twitter and have talked to us in the past about your tarot work. Could you describe how you discovered you were a witch, when you claimed that title and what type of witch you identify as (if you do claim an identity)?
Corii Siren: I didn’t really think about it until a few years ago when more people requested readings. I learned to be on track with the Universe and had faith in that. I saw things really happen and change for me in amazing ways.
So, I expanded my crystal collection, read a lot of books… dabbled… and then, I worked my first candle magick spell. It was enlightening, powerful, empowering and it worked. I used to identify as agnostic and I realized that didn’t work anymore. It wasn’t me. I knew I was a witch — I could feel it. I identify as Pagan currently, but not as any specific kind of witch… yet.
In general, what does sex magic mean to you? As in, how does it help you?
Sex magick is incredible. People have no idea how it can change their lives until they say, “Fuck it, let’s do this!”
And know this: It doesn’t have to be scary. It can be as simple as taking a cleansing bath with your partner, or using crystals during masturbation. Literally all you need to change your reality is an orgasm. However, it all depends on how you think and what intention you are setting with that orgasm.
We have a sacral chakra for a reason. It’s almost against everything we practice to not use it. Owning and opening that chakra and using that Divine Feminine energy has opened up so much creativity for me, and showed and helped me understand new things. It sounds crazy until you just light a candle, grab a crystal toy, and go at it under the full moon. Afterward, your life is different.
Do you think using this type of magic on cam could be empowering?
I think it could be crazy empowering! This is something that I’ve been wanting to incorporate into my shows for a long time, but i’m still coming out of my “witchy shell” of practicing mostly alone, or not in a sexual manner.
But! My point is that sex magick is bringing me out of that shell. Guys want to be part of it. They think it’s sexy, and it makes me feel even sexier. So, I want to bring that into my cam life more than I already do. Will it turn some people away? Of course. Everything about a person turns SOMEONE away. But, you will bring in people who will appreciate it and could even benefit with you.
If you have any tips on how cam models could use this type of ritual to heal or empower, please do.
Order a Chakrub. Figure out what you want to change in your life, find a corresponding crystal (ask me if you need help!) and work with it. Envision what you want — what you really desire.
But be careful what you wish for because magick is powerful. Don’t envision everyone falling in love with you because that’s going to be fucking exhausting. Really think about what you want and be excruciatingly specific.
If you are afraid to take the plunge, recite this mantra next time you’re having the worst period cramps of your life: ek ong kar, sat gur prasad, sat gur prasad, ek ong kar. Literally feel your cramps melt away. You’re welcome.
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Abbie Stutzer is a writer and editor from Lawrence, Kansas. Find her on Twitter at @abbiestutzer and on Insta at @abbiestutzer. Email her at abbie@ynotcam.com.