Alyssia Vera is a cammer and content creator who found the courage to pursue her dreams in the industry, but it wasn’t always easy.
With the help of a terrific husband who supported her aspirations and taught her to love again, she found “passion and purpose” in her new career in adult and was able to move on from an abusive relationship as well as ignore the haters who judged what she did for a living.
A fantastic singer who enjoys incorporating her gift into her shows, Alyssia is a multi-talented performer who bubbles enthusiasm for her work and has some great words of advice about following one’s passion. Enjoy this authentic and vulnerable interview with a woman who had some hard times along the way and came out on top.
How did you get your start in the industry?
As interesting as it may seem… I got my start with the help of my husband!
A little understanding of why. Prior to him I succumbed to near death domestic violence that completely altered my state of mind. I struggled to heal internally and when I met my husband, he taught me how to forgive, find purpose again, and openly communicate in a way that allowed me to give love to others which would’ve previously ended up in violence. I don’t know how I got so lucky! He has a deep desire to see me receive ultimate pleasure from another person which in turn makes our marriage extra hot, passionate, spicy, and fully fulfilling!
How do you keep your life balanced between the adult industry and being married?
It is all about organization, communication, and diligent planning.
My husband and I do time blocking daily which allows me to prioritize. We meal prep, hire help, and ensure we always communicate if I have to travel for an event. He’s my rock!
What are you most proud of in your career to date?
I am most proud that I have found true passion and purpose in my career.
I made a massive 180 career transition two years ago going from fully clothed behind a desk to naked on camera! The fact that I was courageous enough to walk away and find a place to give value through love and also incorporate my other hobby of singing, has changed my life… in a very good way.
How do you deal with close loved ones who criticize you for being in the adult industry?
It was difficult opening up to my family about this new path.
I was always the innocent Catholic girl who never did anything wrong growing up. I didn’t even lose my virginity until I was 18 – on top of it, it was to the man I thought I was going to be with forever. Although many people in my life harp on me for this path, I stick to my guns and keep going. Meditation and breath work are two huge tools I utilize.
There’s always going to be that one judgmental person in your life, but if you learn to silence it, and I truly mean silence it, that noise will slowly fade away. You simply have to learn to be strong enough to ignore it with a smile.
What goals do you have for 2023?
My first goal is to be named the next MILF of the year!
My second goal is to publish my book I’ve waited to get out to the world – it’s a good one.
My third goal is to go viral with a hot sexual video parlayed with me singing! Who wants to go viral with me?!
Follow Alyssia on her Twitter @AlyssiaVera, Instagram @alyssiaveraxo, OnlyFans @AlyssiaVera and all her links at linktr.ee/alyssiavera.
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Alyssa Collins hails from Minnesota, where snowy days were the perfect excuse to stay warm inside and write. Over the years, she turned that joy into a career and has authored numerous articles for various publications (under pen names). Email Alyssa via alyssa@ynot.com.
