Welcome to the Sexywetness!
Muffy Dynamite, aka Sexywetness, is currently age 57, living in sunny Arizona. She’s originally from the Midwest and had many careers, jobs and professions prior to joining the industry in late 2016/early 2017.
“I’ve groomed dogs and worked in retail, been in management and in education, owned my own store and I even repaired radiators one summer,” she shared with YNOT Cam.
Now, she’s enjoying her life working online and creating fresh sexy content for her fans.
“Working online is nice,” Dynamite said. “You have the luxury of working from anywhere, and I have met a ton of really great people in and out of the industry that I would never have met otherwise.”
Read on to learn more about and from this amazing creator who is — quite literally — bursting with energy and power!
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YNOT Cam: What prompted you to begin your career online?
Muffy Dynamite: I had been in management for a big box company and was seriously thinking about leaving that field. I met BobbyJxxx, and he told me about selling panties. I couldn’t believe it at first. I’d never heard of such a thing, but I was intrigued! I read all the articles he sent me and looked into it thoroughly.
I decided to give it a shot and joined PantyDeal. I created my profile then just let it sit there for a while. I guess I was a bit apprehensive at first, but one day we were out having drinks and I received a message on PantyDeal. I guess the story takes off from there…
Originally I didn’t show my face either… I felt like I didn’t want my face out there. But as time progressed and my following grew, I decided it was time and my following tripled! Now I know how important it is to your fans and followers. It creates a deeper connection. Your fans want to know you, and they want to feel close to you. Not showing your face makes that a bit difficult, so keep that in mind — if you can show face, show face!
I saw you wrote “I am competing with 4 other models” in your bio on your website. What does that mean?
On my website muffydynamite.com, I mention the recent modeling competition I was entered in with a local designer. I was approached in August of 2020 by designer Vivian Blu. She had seen me online and wondered if I’d be interested in participating in an annual modeling challenge she hosts. I researched it a bit and agreed.
Each competition runs several months in the given year wrapping up in January. I competed with four other models. We had monthly challenges where we needed to get votes on her site to earn the photo shoot or opportunity. I met every challenge she placed in front of me!
I love a challenge and never do anything half-assed, so I excelled. I was lead in the competition until the very last few minutes. I did not know that votes could be submitted up until midnight on the last day. Another competitor waited until the last five minutes to buy enough votes to surpass me and take the lead and the win. I was terribly disappointed as I had worked so very, very hard. Lesson to be learned!
I see you are active on YouTube – How is it using mainstream platforms like this as an adult content creator today? Is it even worth it?
I love YouTube and making videos. My most favorite fan time is when I’m in my car and my radio first comes on — 99% of the time, a great ’80s rock song will be playing. I take that time to jam out and talk to my fans, so I decided to start uploading these to my YouTube channel.
Mainstream platforms can be difficult for sex workers. They don’t care for us much, and we don’t get treated equally. Oftentimes our hard work and content get misunderstood, reported and, subsequently, deleted. This happens even when you work so hard to follow their Terms of Service. It just takes someone to report you for whatever reason.
I still recommend utilizing mainstream social media though. Read, absorb and learn their Terms of Service, and do your best to stay within those guidelines. Do not test the system. Do not hope something will “slide by.”
I have been deleted from Instagram 13 times, and yes — I followed their TOS. I fought every time to get my account back but never was able to. I still plug away with social media though. I honestly find it beneficial and even worth the headache…
Happy Monday! pic.twitter.com/tb2QELTXhi
— 🧨 Muffy 💋 Dynamite 🧨 (@MuffyDynamite) June 21, 2021
I see this tweet of yours… Can you share a bit about how you collaborate with promo accounts?
This particular tweet is a “Coming Soon” teaser where I tagged several of my top promoters and friends. When I first started tweeting, I tagged promo accounts all the time. I don’t tag them every time now. I try to tag them when I feel I’m sharing a post that I’d really like others to see. Tagging promoters does help with that.
What I would say is… There are a lot of legitimate promoters out there. There are also a ton of not-so-legitimate promoters. Research the promoters you are thinking of using. If they ask for money to promote you, ask you to send them private nudes or vids or any other favors in return for promoting you, I would not use them.
Also check to see who their followers are and how many they have. Make sure they have a strong following. Make sure it’s not just filled with other sex workers or models. And treat the promoters you choose with respect. The good ones appreciate you and all you do and love sharing that with others. That’s why they promote — for the joy of it all. I think I have built a relationship – a friendship, I guess you could say — with many of my steady promoters.
Outside of work, what are you most passionate about?
I’m not sure how my “outside of work” is different than my work! I think to be a true artist and build a strong rapport with your fans, they need to see and feel like they are a part of your world, whatever that might look like, so I do try to bring them “behind the curtain” per se.
One of my passions has been helping other sex workers. I receive so much satisfaction from building people up and helping them find their way. I attend every adult conference and training I can, so I am on top of my game and have the most current information to share, as well as to help myself and others succeed.
I am part of a few support groups for sex workers too. Our goal is to help each other and to give positive or negative feedback when asked. We exchange ideas. We brainstorm. We laugh. We cry. We scream… But we are strong, and we only get stronger as a team.
There are millions of people in this world. This should not be a competition. There are enough fans, followers and buyers for all of us!
Aside from all that, I love the outdoors. I live in sunny Arizona, and I am a sun goddess! I feel the best when I’m tan and wet! I’m also very passionate about animals. I live on a large rural property and have tons of wildlife. I can spend my day just watching them out my front window eating and playing. Or, I love taking long walks and inhaling the beautiful scenery, wildlife and stunning sunsets.
Fun fact: I create “Trash to Treasures” too. This means I take things that are broken, damaged, tossed out, but that have good bones, and I reimagine them into something else. Mostly furniture, but I work with many pieces.
If you could change one thing about today’s world, what would it be and why?
I’m sad about this whole last year. I feel disappointed about the control the powers that be had over our lives and still do. This made me start to wonder where our life, liberty and free will went… Hopefully, we are getting back on track.
Find Muffy Dynamite on Twitter at @MuffyDynamite.
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Erika is a sex positive people watcher (and writer). Email her at erika@ynotcam.com.
