By Andra Chirnogeanu
We get this advice so often: Always be who you are, be genuine and be real.
And yes, “real” is something that everyone should do and be. That’s totally true and fair, at least until that yellow button for private is pressed. Then the real realness comes out. That’s where everyone is truly their real selves.
Most cam models simply want to make a living from actually talking to people and developing relationships — “sexy therapists,” some would call us. So, as people go to therapists, that’s how they come to visit our rooms. And here, they let loose. Perhaps they even get “more real.”
Within this context, when it comes to guys that come to cam looking for company, there are three types of members. Well, there are more than three types — but we are going to discuss three main ones here.
The Boss Man
You know that boss man? That hard head? The one that’s always walking around like he has a foot in his ass, and he’s so vocal? Well, we see him a lot online. Interestingly though, his real self comes out when he goes private.
“He’s one of my members, ‘The Boss Man’ — and he likes to wear stockings and a wig. He likes me to make fun of him and call him my bitch,” Ivy Aryah shared.
The Boss Man is human too though — that’s why you see such a transformation when you go private. To make life easier for you and him, you let him be who he wants to be. And you get to be yourself too.
“I’m there to fulfil his fantasies so that others in the real world don’t get fired tomorrow for that late report. You’re welcome!” she continued.
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The Good Guy
What about Mr Tom, your neighborhood teacher? He seems so calm and collected, and he takes great care doing his job. But he is a person too, and when he comes online we see a different side.
“He comes to me when he can’t hold it anymore… He asks me to talk in a schoolgirl voice, tell him that I haven’t done my homework and that I was really, really bad,” Rebecca000 shared.
You see, Mr Tom has a fetish that he holds inside and is fighting with — and he’s not the only one. Many members have unique fetishes that they can only share with their friends during privates.
“Before I broke him, he told me he hadn’t talked to a woman in years because he was afraid his fetish will send the women off running and screaming…. But it’s only that the man has a fetish, a fantasy, a sorta something happened in his brain when he sees a woman in a short plaid skirt,” she continued.
On my way back home?? See you tomorrow morning ??? pic.twitter.com/iwJN4znr5w
— Rebecca000 (@Rebecca000LJ) March 25, 2018
Nerds, Geeks and Everyone in Between
Nerds, geeks and everyone who is a little bit shy, smart and dorky are also often visitors online — these guys are often the most misunderstood, too.
“Oh, that nerdy guy that you’ve always blew off? Oh my god, he’s such a freak,” Amber Haze shared.
“He’s got one of the sexiest minds I ever met, but he’s so shy when it comes to having a real life conversation with a woman. I try to help him, encourage him and teach him what to say and what to do when the time comes,” she added.
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— AmberHaze (@AmberHazeStar) March 24, 2018
Boss men, good guys, nerds and more — cam models have developed relationships with all these people. Some of them are “normal” in the eyes of society, and some of them struggle. All of them come to cam though as a space to be more real with who they are. They can be real with us. They can be themselves, and they can’t hurt anyone.
This is one of the advantages of being a cam model. You get to help people be themselves, and you also get to test yourself such that you actually find out what your limits are, how you can control yourself and what you actually like and dislike. All this of this is accomplished just being you — unfiltered.
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Andra Chirnogeanu is the head of public relations and social media marketing for Studio20 Romania. Email her at pr@studio20.ro.
Image via Torli Roberts
