Every model must find her niche — things she likes to do that her fans like, too — but there are so many options. From vanilla to psellismophilia (being aroused by s-s-s-t-t-tuttering), so many flavors and fetishes… How do you know where to start?
Experienced models have heard it all. Puppy play #bowwow, spanking, feet and furries, tickling and being tickled… Many activities don’t involve sex at all but are still what fetish aficionados need to get off.
What is a fetish, exactly?
Merriam Webster defines a fetish — paraphilia, in psychiatric terms — as “…an object of irrational reverence or obsessive devotion,” or “an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification, and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression.” Uh… That could be almost anything.
Some of the most common fetishes include mazophilia (arousal by female breasts), podophilia (foot fetish), autagonistophilia (being onstage or on-camera), narratophilia (talking dirty) and pygophilia (arousal by buttocks). Others include voyeurism, group sex, rubber, role-play and plain old BDSM.
AskMen’s sexpert, Dr. Emily Morse, devised a Top Ten list of fetish favorites that includes all the usual suspects but also lists kinky cravings for hair and even lightning, rain and water. In 2014, the UK’s Channel4 surveyed more than 2,000 viewers to come up with a Top Ten list that included water sports (No. 9), humiliation (No. 7) and cross-dressing (No. 10). Another list, based on internet searches, brought up even more ideas, like shoe and piercing fetishes.
Some fetishes, including Beautiful Agony and gastro-voyeur shows, originated with cammers. South Korean vlogger Park Seo-yeon, aka TV Diva, reportedly rakes in $9,000 a month from her YouTube channel where she eats lots and lots of yummy food. Sushi, cupcakes and curries are among viewers’ favorites. #nomnomnom
The main thing is, make sure whatever fetish you choose is something you want to do and enjoy doing. If you want to be worshipped like a fetish queen, whether it’s leather or lollypops, pick what you like best or what’s best about you and own it. Fans will notice.
Finally, the Criminal Justice Degrees Guide contains lots of info for those interested in all sorts of law-enforcement jobs, including — strangely enough — this list of “10 Unusual Fetishes that Have Massive Online Followings.” We at YNOTCam.com don’t know how recent the list is, but it sure is interesting. You won’t find feet or used panties (which the authors consider common), but you might want to do some research about adult babies, armpit smell and folks who like to get it on with mannequins or dolls.
Maybe the strangest? Peeps who like to watch someone woken from a dead sleep to have “Dude, I was dead asleep!” sex. We’d give the Latin official name for the fetish, but we’re not sure there is one.